Female Orgasm Understanding It and Making It Happen
To give a women pleasure it is important to understand the stages of the female orgasm and what they mean to give your partner pleasure and satisfaction.
In Western terms, the female orgasm is (from the Greek orgasmos, "to swell"), is also known as the sexual climax; a pleasurable physical, psychological and emotional response to prolonged sexual stimulation.
A female orgasm, like the male one, is often accompanied by a notable physiological reaction, such as blushing with or without spasms and may be followed by additional spasms known as aftershocks.
In the East, as described in the Chinese Tao of sex, the female orgasm is far more categorized, and is said to have 9 stages.
Most men (from the East and West) who are not aware of the 9 stages often stop at stage 4, thus depriving the woman of the ultimate pleasure available to her. The 9 stages are as:
The 9 stages of female orgasm
1. The "lung"stage, where the woman "sighs",
breathes very heavily and salivates.
Psychological stages of the female orgasm
The female orgasm is preceded by moistening of the
vaginal walls, and an enlargement of the clitoris due
to increased blood flow trapped in the clitoriss spongy
Many women exhibit a sex flush; a reddening of the
skin over much of the body due to increased blood flow
to the skin. As a woman approaches her orgasm,
her clitoris retracts under the clitoral hood, and the labia minora
(minor lips) becomes darker (due to blood swell).
As her orgasm becomes imminent, the vagina decreases in size
from 25% to 40% and also becomes congested from engorged
soft tissue. The uterus can then experiences muscular contractions.
A woman experiences full orgasm (in Western terms)
when her uterus, vagina and pelvic muscles undergo a series
of rhythmic contractions. The majority of women consider
these contractions to be very pleasurable.
Multiple female orgasms
Unlike men, women either do not have a refractory period
or have a very short one, and thus can experience a second
orgasm soon after the first; some women can even follow this with
additional consecutive orgasms, up to eight have been
reported amongst some people; this is known as having
multiple orgasms. In Eastern thought, these are just part
of the process.
Again, in Western thought, a distinction is sometimes
made between a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm. A female
orgasm that results from combined clitoral and vaginal stimulation
is called a blended orgasm. In Eastern thought,
this is getting closer to stage 9.
A final consideration is the case of female ejaculation. It is not considered at all in Eastern thought, but in the West there is a long-standing discussion about the existence of Female ejaculation (colloquially known as squirting or gushing). This refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of fluid from the urethra or vagina during sexual stimulation at or near orgasm. The expelled fluid is reported variously as:
The fact is the female orgasm goes through various stages
knowing what these stages are and what to expect means that
you can respond and guide you women to ultimate satisfaction.
Find out how to help your women orgasm in part 2
This is discussed in part 2 "helping your
women reach orgasm every time"
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