Anal Sex - Introduce Your Women To The Delights Of Anal Sex
Some women love anal sex and some do not, anal sex can be extremely pleasurable for your women, but many women are not sure about trying it.
Here we will outline some tips for great anal sex and how to communicate with your partner to relax her.
Keep in mind your partner maybe anti anal sex for a variety of reasons:
She thinks it’s dirty, she has had a bad experience, or she is simply wary of something new.
Here are some tips for anal sex with your partner to add a new dimension to your relationship.
Anal sex start gently
Without going straight to her anus, caress her inner thighs and bottom with your hands, mouth or both.
The trick here with your partner is to start gently and don’t rush it.
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Cleanliness is essential with sex and even more so with the anus, so a bath or a shower together is a great way to get started.
Make sure to use a lubricant and have plenty on hand to make things go smoothly.
A good way to start performing analingus is to start with cunnilingus first and move her gently around and start performing analingus.
The anus is sensitive, run your tongue in a circular motions rhythmic way, to warm and stimulate her.
When she is relaxed and you can here she is enjoying it, you can push your tongue inside and let your imagination and creative thoughts run wild!
Move the tongue in and out and around and use gentle ticking, licking and thrusting to get her worked up ad give her pleasure.
Use lubricant generously in the area and then put a generous amount of lubricant on your finger, its then time to start.
Start off gently, by making circles around her anus with a finger before you try to insert your finger, to relax and warm her up.
Keep in mind that if your partner is not used to anal fingering she may be tense and a little nervous and you will see this reaction as she tenses her buttocks.
Relax her kiss and lick her all over her body, perform cunnilingus and then gently approach the anus area.
Once your fingers are inside, you can start exploring and watch her reactions.
Move up the pressure or penetration gently, all the time ask her what she likes and don’t move to fast.
A few basic moves in anal fingering include:
1. Moving your finger in a circular motion around the walls of the rectum,
2. Moving in circular rhythmic way along a specific region,
3. Moving your fingers in and out, rotating your hand and spinning your finger around.
Of course you can combine all the above to give her anal pleasure while fingering.
Communication between you and your partner is critical and don’t go too quickly unless you are sure she is ready.
The basics of good anal sex you both enjoy starts with the plenty of lubrication, relaxation and a slow, gentle approach.
A gentle approach is more important with the penis than your finger and tongue, as it is far bigger, so if your partner is not used to anal sex she may be tense.
Let her guide and lead you with regard to what she wants communication between you and your partner is again the key with having great anal sex.
Butt Plugs Vibrators and climax beads all fall into this category and can provide your partner with a lot of pleasure
A butt plug can inserted into the rectum. Once in, you can leave it where it is, or move it in and out.
Many women like the sense of intrusion that butt plugs bring which can be an immense turn on.
Keep in mind you can get butt plugs in various sizes from, small to very large, if your partner is not used to them start small!
Vibrators perform the same function as butt plugs, but add a new dimension to anal sex ( of course they vibrate! ) and many women like the rhythm and tingling sensation that this provides.
They range from soft to firm in texture and normally consist of four to about 16 balls connected with a cord.
They are a great introduction to anal sex, as they are les bulky and intimidating for women, particularly those new to anal sex.
To start using them, insert bead by bead into the anus.
Leave the beads where they are until your partner is getting near to the point of orgasm, the beads are then pulled out one by one. This can greatly intensify a climax for any women.
Anal sex communication is the key!
Remember, communication is the key to great anal sex, once you have experimented with anal sex you will add a new dimension to your relationship.
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