Sexual Massage - How To Enhance Any Relationship
IIn human relationships, one should not underestimate the important
of touch and this article is all about using touch to show your
partner how much you love and care for them.
Try it and you will find out how to convey your emotions and
feelings in a totally different way that will enhance any relationship
and is a fun and enjoyable form of foreplay.
The importance of touch
Goes back to our very roots of being in the womb, our mother's
holding us, and then childhood innocent games with parents, siblings
and friends. In later life, we tend to duplicate this, if we can,
with our intimate relations.
The sexual massage is one very special way to do this, and can
bring not only relaxation, but a keener sense of intimacy to both
Setting the mood
To begin you will need some relaxing environment. If you are going to give the massage on a bed, it must not be too soft. If it is, use the floor, but put down first a folder blanket or a duvet. You must also have ready
The room should be warm, as your partner will be naked (but not
at first). Light the candles, put on the music, and you are about
Many techniques include massage (or masturbation) of the gentiles.
This technique does not, but recommends intercourse as the natural
conclusion of the massage.
With your partner lying face-down (and perhaps a small pillow
under her or his head, and a rolled small towel under the ankles
(to elevate the foot slightly) put some oil into your hands. Never
put the oil or massage cream directly on the partner's skin as
it can confuse and even ruin the mood of the massage.
Start with the high back, rubbing with flat hands in circles
(the left hand circling counter-clockwise and the right hand clockwise).
This is a relaxing stroke and you can move both lower or higher.
Keep your hand well oiled until your partner's skin (as well as
your own) has stopped "drinking" the oil. As you move
higher and lower with this stoke, you can now move both hands
in the same direction.
As you continue, you can include the whole of the back, and how
your circling strokes become the swimming stroke. These are very
large a movements beginning at the small of your partner's back
and finishing at the nape of the neck. You can continue like this
for some minutes, and you will give a great pleasure to your partner;
who will begin to melt beneath you.
The shoulders and neck
You next work on the shoulder and neck with the flat of your
thumbs and even kneading (as if you were kneading dough for bread).
Continue for a few minutes.
Buttocks & Legs
Work your way down now to your partner's buttocks. Use the kneading
technique at first, and then end with small circling. Work at
the cleavage of the buttocks, and on the inside of the thigh,
but do not actually touch your partner's anus or gentiles. Come
as close as you can without doing so, and tease this areas with
Quickly move down each leg, massaging with the kneading movement,
then the circling. Now go to each foot. Apply more oil and rub
and massage each part of the foot, each toe even. Place special
emphasis on the sole, and use your thumbs to massage the ball
of the foot and then arch.
Asking your partner to turn over, work your way up the leg to
the hips. Be careful to NOT touch the genital area, but only come
as close as is possible. This is like scratching a mosquito bite,
but around the bite, and not directly on it.
The front of the body
Lift your partner slightly from the small of the back two or
three times. Then on your partner's abdomen, do large swimming
stokes, and keep this up for at least 3 to 4 minutes. This area
will ignite the sexual centers, and create a great desire for
sexual union with your partner; but do not yield till you are
finished giving the massage.
Continue with small circling movements on the chest or breast
of your partner, and then move to the next with light pressuring
movements only. Go behind your partner now and work on his or
her face from behind. Do very light massage, not neglecting the
lips, and eyes. Move to the sides of the forehead, and then end
with the earlobes. There are great sexual centers (used also by
acupressurists) there, and end with light pressure to each lobe.
You end the massage now on the whole of your partner's body with
the back of the hands, using only the tips of the fingernails
in as light and long stokes as possible.
Practice and enjoy the above
Try the above and you will find a massage will add a different and enjoyable dimension to your relationship
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