Losing Your Virginity - A Girl's Guide To The First Time
If you are reading this, and fit the situation, then the subject
is already a consideration on your mind.
You may have read something on the subject, spoken to a girlfriend
who has passed through the experience recently, and heard about
it in school. We hope to help you here, with a short guide. It
is for you.
First of all, you must feel it is the correct thing to do. You
must NOT be pressured into it, or the experience will fail to
bring you the pleasure and good memories you expect and deserve.
You are in charge of your life and body. You must really feel
ready for it.
If you have been masturbating, you probably had clitoral orgasm,
so you know what is possible in terms of feelings. You must also,
know your own anatomy.
You know you have some outer lips that cover the vulva, and some
inner lips which are very flexible. If your hymen is intact, you
are also going to tear that, with the accompanying sensations
and bleeding. Find out.
In the second consideration, do not have sex if you have over-drunk
alcohol. You can become drunk and lose a great deal of your judgment
after even one drink.
The third consideration is INSISTING on the use of a condom with
your partner. The reasons for this are well known, and certainly
there is no excuse for not using it. You must be protected. This
is a health concern, a very good way to prevent conception, and
generally a good idea as it will help to slow down your partner
by desensitizing him a bit.
So to begin.
You cannot have too much foreplay. This should take the form
of mutual kissing, erotic massaging, exploring each other's bodies,
seeing where each of you are sensitive and have erogenous spots.
Don't rush. It will be over soon enough as it is.
All the while as you have foreplay, your womb will be producing
the all important moisture that is required. Believe us, the wetter
the better. You cannot be too wet for the first time. If you are
a bit adventurous, ask you partner to give you cunnilingus, and
if you can, give to your partner some fellatio. These are wonderful
signs of showing affection.
Getting into it.
Make sure after your foreplay (and perhaps fellatio) put on the
condom if you haven't already. The partner may make the first
move to go directly into the standard missionary position. Bad
idea. It is the worst position to lose your virginity. You are
not in control, and it will be more painful and you cannot do
anything but lay there and take it. Instead, try the girl on top
position. Here you are in control. Your vagina has never had anything
in it before (like a penis) and it must accommodate it slowly
If you are losing you hymen, you are the one determining the
speed and pressure with which it occurs. You will not suffer,
and if you are still not wet enough, you can apply some water-based
vaginal lubricant (such as K-Y). The deed is soon done, and you
can get down to thrusting.
At first, have your partner move without thrusting, just applying
pressure while fully inserted in your vagina. As it begins to
feel natural, you can your self start thrusting.
At this point you can change positions (assuming your partner
has lasted) and go onto your back. However, do not settle for
the simple missionary position, but tilt your pelvis slightly
up, and ask your partner to suspend himself on his arms and not
lay on you
this when thrusting will stimulate both your clitoris
There are a lot of variables here, but lose you virginity as we suggest, and you will have in your mind pleasant memories instead of feeling unfilled, or used.
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